My Dear Readers,

What is that ONE THING that is holding you back from living the kind of life you truly desire? Is it a lie from your past, your current situation or your fears of tomorrow?

See, ehnn, I am not even going to mince words, because I am truly tired of living an average life. And trust me, I also don’t want you to settle for less. In this post, I am not even going to be highlighting  10 things to do to make you happier, or the 3 steps you need to take to actualise your vision. I believe you must have heard this so much from people. I have flogged this issue so well in my previous posts that you can read here.

I have come to realise that..

It doesn’t take so much for you to begin living the kind of life that you want. It just takes you to do that ONE THING. You might be thinking, I have tried several things before, I have put in so much energy, attended conferences training and several coaching programs. But my life hasn’t shown any significant improvement.

Do you know why this is so?

You are doing every other thing instead of doing just that one thing that truly matters. I  am sure, you will be thinking, so what is that ONE THING I haven’t done before?

The ONE THING that you must do is to

”Take charge of your mind always” 

I am just imaging you aksing me…. Erhmmmm, Wunmi, is that all I need to do?  and I am grinning to answer- Yes, that is all you need to do.


The mind is the powerhouse of your life. You cannot live a life different from how you think. YOU ARE YOUR THOUGHTS.  Too many times, people give up on themselves in their mind (where no one sees them, and then try to make moves outside. This won’t work!!!  Believe me, life is lived from inside out, and it is not necessarily what you act out that determines the outcome of your life.

If you want a different result,  be it in business, career, family, relationship, then you must first have those things in your mind. Allow your mind conceive the possibilities of you having them.


I can really beg on this one. Please……. Do not allow self-limiting thoughts/ ideas to keep you bound from living your best life. Keep daring the impossible because you can. Yes, you can.


+++++ Read this scripture to  yourself daily: Philippians 4:8 (Amplified Translation)

Finally, believers, whatever is true, whatever is honourable and worthy of respect, whatever is right and confirmed by God’s word, whatever is pure and wholesome, whatever is lovely and brings peace, whatever is admirable and of good repute; if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think continually on these things [centre your mind on them, and implant them in your heart].




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